girlfriend and i on the rocks how can i save it for the holiday?

January 29th, 2011

chris d asked:


girlfriend is 21 im 24. dating 5 months so far but been together for 1 year. shes a daddys girl and whatever he says kind of goes.. well over the past weekend she went out to a xmas party for work and never came home.. i had her brother calling me, her dad and a cop cuz her dad is crazy about her. i overreacted and she told me she got drunk and slept at her freinds house. i came over after work and told her i was done i cant take this immature stuff. she got really upset and cried. i felt bad cuz i love her very much so i didnt break up with her i just said i need to leave right now and would call her later that night. But i never did i was kind of upset still so i ignored her phone calls and went out with my friends. i felt bad in a way cuz she was calling cring and stuff. she even texted me “wanna fuck” to see if i would respond. i was like *** so i did but it was 3 hrs later that night when i was drunk and texted her ” dont ever talk to me again please” i didnt mean it .next morning she called me saying she loved and missed me and wanted to hang out. so i called her around noon time but she turned everything on me now. i tried calling her/texting herbut she wouldnt call or answer i no i hurt her but i was also hurt about her not going home the other night. now the father said i hurt her and cannot talk to her anymore.. she talked yesterday but kept it short but i told her i want us to work this out and be happy. she said shes not sure cuz or her dad. she only does small text still like hi, hey but also the silent treatment. im very much hurt cuz i love her and its 4 days before xmas…what should i do? please help thank you

Dj Cumbuss

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how do you properly thank someone after staying at their house for the holidays?

November 5th, 2009

raha asked:


i spent 2 weeks of holiday vacation (including xmas and new year) at my aunt’s house. I had a wonderful time; everyone was really courteous, and i got along really well with my cousins. However, i don’t know how to properly thank them. Phone calls, gifts, emails, letters…what should i do to show my appreciation? What should i say?

THOMAS

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